March 30, 2023: Salon has just posted (see here) my essay “Look at him: Why can’t straight guys acknowledge male beauty without freaking out?” It’s about why…what I just said right there. Did you forget already? Anyway, in the piece, I cite examples of straight guys who have gotten testy when attention has been drawn to various men’s facial loveliness, and to my memory there has been no bigger straight-male-rage magnet than Evan Dando, who has always seemed like a kindly, yogurt-swilling, straight-male-rage-undeserving fellow, don’t you think?